The Law of Attraction - Getting From Judgmental to Noticing

As you delve deeper into the Law of Attraction andneither side has control of the total decision making
the processes that you need to take to have theprocess.
universal law of the universe work with you and notThe key situation for leading managers is to balance
against you, one of the key things that you willthese two types at the levels needed for the particular
discover is your own social conditioning can and doesspecifics of there industry. The key problem they face
work against you at every step of the way. Why do Iis the fact that one tends to hire those people we feel
say that I here you ask? Just think about the socialmost at ease with and this is usually those with your
conditioning that has been placed on you as a child,attitude. How many times do you here both sides
through the teens and into early days as an adult.blaming each other to others about this or that decision
Typical things I’m talking about would be for athat was made or not made. So and so
boy but equally have there own conditions for girls.wouldn’t listen to the issues I pointed out or so
Things like: grow up big and strong, don’t cry, andand so took to long to make a decision so we missed
don’t show your emotions, what are you a manthe deal. Again we are being Judgmental and not
or a wimp. You have all heard them and in part, if youNoticing [
are a parent, used them at various times on yourNoticing is a very key process and a process we all
children. We tend to suppress free thinking for socialneed to take to heart if we are to progress with the
and our community expectations.Law of Attraction, in the manifestation of our wants
What this conditioning has done to us is make us veryand key desires. We need to slow down the decision
judgmental. We move through these processesmaking process. Stop making the judgments we
especially within Western Society at our cost. Ournormally take through social conditioning and to actually
judgmental nature has been the breeding grounds forpause and sift through all the information being
so many of the evils in our society today, such aspresented. From this information review we often see
racism, road rage and bullying to mention just a few.something we missed due to the screening our brains
We are training people not to be as one in aimpose and in the case of the Law of Attraction the
community but of a self level. The oldsimple direction or steps to be taken, if we are to have
“what’s in it for me attitude”. Thethat which we were manifesting come to fruition.
world owes me a living mentality that pervades ourOur screening process (noticing) needs to expand to
youth today as they live in the “Want It”include other into the process. We need to build off the
society. A want society built out of the baby boomersintrovert and extravert types and apply their
who were a “Lets have it” society whereprocesses as necessary in the final decision making.
20% of the population consumed 86% of the worldThere is a term called “Group Think” which
resources.has caused many a company to come unstuck and it
Our training was designed over the decades to makesimply happens when every one looks at the one side
us judgmental. We were taught to see the issues, thewithout true evaluation of the alternatives. We all want
risks etc and to make a decision on them at a rapidto please, be one with the group and not be the one to
pace. For early man it was to react in time to savespeak up. Some companies are so aware of group
themselves from being eaten. As time progressed intothink, that at key meeting they appoint a
the industrial revolution, it was to avoid life threatening“dissenter” on rotation, who is to be
issues and injury and in our current western society itnegative to the process under discussion. Their role is
is a key part of decisions taken in the deal makingto point out counter issues, alternative considerations,
process within industry. We must react quickly or misspossible problems within time lines etc. Why do this I
out.here you ask? It so we notice the things we want to
Everything is done at a very rapid rate. As a result thescreen out and then drop them for specific reasons
mind concentrated on what it believes is the keynot just on screening, learning and knowledge grounds.
points, as it shuffles through the vast amount ofWe need to become aware of the world around us.
information being presented? Research into ourThe real world, not that which our brain have been
decision making processes clearly shows we allsocially prepared to accept, not the world that our five
operate at different rates with different responses.senses and even our sixth sense have been
These responses are clearly related to the learningconditioned to, as being the norm. We need to seek
schooling we received, what exposure we have hadout the alternative. In relationships we need to just
to the situation before or similar related issue and finallywatch people we deal with and try and see things
how much risk we are prepared to take commonlyfrom their side for a change. Try and see their
called our ”risk aversion level”. As ourperspective and to notice the information they are
judgments, as we have previously stated, are built onbasing their decision on. Who knows, they may just
avoiding risk or harm or injury to ourselves.have seen what we filtered out or have missed what
So where does “Noticing” come into thewe filtered in. Take notice do not make judgments,
situation and how does it impact on The Law ofpoint out your view, but ask for theirs in return so you
Attraction and the response we receive fromsee what they noticed.
participation with these universal laws. The key is toThe law of attraction and manifestation is all about
look at what our decision making process does. KeyNoticing. Noticing exactly what it is we want, noticing
among the points is the fact that our decision makingthe specifics that need to be presented in our
process drops information. Our five senses workvisualizations as we seek to attract our manifestations.
overtime, all day every day screening out all thatNoticing the small steps that we need to take to make
surrounds us, while storing some of the information forthe manifestation become the reality we seek.
possible future use. We screen what is being providedJudgment also has a part to play and it always will, but
to us. We drop from our immediate short termin today’s society Noticing is the key skill we
memory what we scan as not important. We becomeneed to develop at the expense of our judgment.
selective about importance of issues. Based not inOur judgment and sensory screening will always be
most part the actual truth, but based, as we pointedhere and it must be otherwise we would go mad. Our
out earlier, on our learning, our prior involvement andconscious mind cannot take the flood of information
importantly our risk levels. You see it every day in theour five senses process constantly minute by minute
introvert and extroverts of our world. Extroverts workand still have the ability to make standalone judgments.
on minimal information making decisions on the runThat is why the universe gave us three segments of
never looking back, while introverts look for the finethe mind to control this information overload.
detail, seeking the weaknesses in the decision beingSo as you develop your understanding of life under the
made not just the strengths the extroverts tend to runcontrol of the universal laws, the Law of Attraction, of
with. Introverts do not fly by the seat of there pants,affirmations and manifestations continue to build on
on gut feelings or the extroverts “we can fix ityour judgments but never loose site of noticing the
as we go” attitude. That’s why in businessworld and people around you.
you need both types within the organization, where